I only ask him to do what he agreed to do under the Deed - and he tried for several months to get out of doing those things; he then asks me to do things that have no legal basis (of which I've been advised at any rate) and were not requirements under the Deed - how can he expect that I would do that?

Maybe he thinks I'm still the 'old' Noala, who would do just about anything he asked. It's as if he doesn't understand that you get what you give.... you know, if you want people to be 'nice' to you then you be nice to them; if you want them to do more than just what's required then you do more than that for them yourself. He certainly hasn't been nice to me so why should I bend over backwards to help him? It's not the way I use to operate, and not what gneneral 'people' deserve or get from me, but it's how he has operates - no that's not true, even operating that way is better than the way he operates (be nasty to someone then expect them to do more than they have to) - and he's taught me there's no point being nice to him, cos with him you don't get back what you give.