A Rather Productive Day...

My belated day off was quite a good one, busy as it was (and as they usually are since I have to do all the running around that I can't do being employed full-time).

Yes, no lazy day off this time, heaps of running around to do, as well as washing and ironing (bad thing about warm weather is that my warm weather clothes are of the type that need to be ironed gahhh)

Thunderbolt got some driving time in; less than 9 hours to go of the 25 hour log book now.


Losing My Mind
I seem to be good at forgetting appointments lately :( have missed two in four days :(
The doctors' receptionist made me feel so bad that I haven't yet rebooked an appointment - this is not particularly good as there are some tests I need done and I need a jab.

She made me feel so bad that I'm thinking of changing doctors (although I don't really want to do that). Yes, it was my fault that when my RDO was bumped that I forgot to cancel/change my appointment, but sheeesh

The other appointment wasn't as crucial - Qetesh needs annual vaccination, have rebooked that one for Saturday.

Flea Update
The house has been bombed and everything in sight washed and vaccumed. Flea numbers on Qetesh last night were NIL!!!!!!!!!! Maybe (cross your fingers for me) the major part of the fight is won. I know, have to watch for the eggs hatching though YUK!!!!!!!!

Legal Update
The other side have also gotten a Counsels Opinion. He has an appt with his lawyer tomorrow. I'm not hopeful that it will be commensurate with the opinion my side received as it appears to me there is a major matter of fact that he doesn't realise is as important as it is. Methinks his lawyer has perhaps missed it as well (whether purposely or not, unknown). If that is the case then the right info won't have been passed onto the Counsel and the opinion will be in his favour and he will think once again that I'm the one being nasty and stubborn.

Made noises today about a settlement that would include me receiving monies but in return for me doing 'somethings' (unstated) and confidential/non-disclosure ... which to me points in only one direction; a direction I don't know whether I'm willing to go (as it probably involves deception/secrets). I told him if he had an offer to make he should do so via his lawyer.

Got part way through writing him an e-mail tonight, things I want him to know ... how I haven't been doing the 'nasty'/hardball things my lawyer advised me to do and other such stuff, that I've met my responsibilities and I simply want him to meet his. I guess I want him to know that I have been 'kinder' than I have needed to be throughout this; I don't think he realises that (he just seems to do what his lawyer tells him, eg leaving the caveat on my house was the lawyers idea). I didn't send it.

He retold me how bad he is feeling about her having rejected him, then of course said he shouldn't talk about that kind of stuff with me.

Verdict - legal stuff=wait and see, still/again.