It's frustrating to see him posting pics of his latest holiday when his last batch of communications with me were about how he had no money!
Grrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr
Yes, maybe he didn't have to pay for the four tickets (he's not alone), maybe it was done on points - but he still 'owed' me a heap of them too! And maybe the tickets were a gift from someone.
But, the flights aren't always the most expensive part of the holiday; accomodation (a two bedroom apartment), meals, camel rides - it all adds up - not to mention the other spending (there are quite a few art galleries where he is, and he has spent up big there previously).
Be Warned
There are likely to be posts about shite stuff over the next period of time. .. however long the legal process takes. I'm not apologising if it bores you - when embroiled in that 'stuff' I really need to write things out, to help me get things straight/out of my brain and writing it down helps me to think things through.
Like I've said so many times before, the blog is titled For Me for a reason.
Silly Boy
It seems rather silly to me to be posting those pics on a web site, and the fact that he recently bought a new digital camera that retails for about A$2,000.00. I wonder how that, together with the holiday, will go down with a judge when he is trying to cry poor?
Also posted a pic of his car - and didn't bother to blur out the number plate! For once he is making things easier for me, though he probably doesn't realise it.
Is His Life Really My Business?
This question occurred to me as I busily downloaded the pics he had put on the web.
I came to the conclusion that it *is* my business; and it is he who has made it so.
It was he who came to me when his relationship with her was on the downer; and not just once. It was he who came to me when he was feeling suicidal because she didn't want him in her life anymore. That made their relationship my business.
It is he who is not making payments that he is legally obliged to; that makes his spending habits my business. If he was making the payments then it wouldn't be any of my concern at all. If he wasn't crying poor to me then it wouldn't be of any interest to me.
Yes, this *is* my business, I have valid reasons for having an interest in his life - and he made it that way.
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4 comments:
glad the legal process has begun, and you can begin to get through it. its the worst part. it digs into all the ugly stuff. it hurts as well as makes you angry, and it magnifies the anger some days. get it outside of you....rant, scream, write till you can't write anymore. turn comments off if stupid readers make stupid comments.
its called processing it....and it is thousands of times more healthy than sucking it up and moving on.
HUGS
I'm a tad confused. If the blog is for you and not for us then why add it to a blog traffic increaser?
It is you who added the blog to BlogExplosion. It is you that invited us to come and observe your inner-thoughts. This blog is now here for us -- and you made it that way.
;)
I hope things go well for you!
george, i would have to disagree.
i too write for myself. it is MY blog to say what i wish and my choice to say, "i dont care what you think about what i have said" .
i still wish to have people read my words. i think i often have something to say that might resonate with someone else. and there are also perspectives on things that i can gain that i might not have without someones comment. and too sometimes its just nice to know one is not alone.
Thankyou for your comment George (and no, I'm not being sarcastic).
It's good to be confused - 'cos that's when we learn things :)
For one, I don't always write about the shite.
For two, maybe some people find the writing about the shite more interesting than the other stuff? Maybe others are in the same situation and find posts about the shite helpful for themselves in some way.
For three, and most importantly, I am close to the shite, and, whilst I can often look at things from anothers' point of view, I am very open to the idea that maybe I am too close to see a different interpretation. Comments from others who can see things that I miss are comments I value. Like the stuff about 'Is it My Business', maybe my reasoning doesn't 'follow' and a commenter could point that out. I value input because I know my way is not the only way.
For four, you can put me on your BE block list if you want to - it's your choice as to whether you read.
And maybe someone passes through who read and thinks 'thank goodness I'm not the only one'. To me that's a good thing.
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